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Wednesday, August 8, 2012

judging itu bangang

entry lama yang tak di post post~

i think i used to write about how bangang people with their judging attitude...

i have to admit myself...i did judge people sometimes...but that was years back..now..as long as i never talk to that person...i won't be judging...yes, i know, first impression is everything...but studying oversea, here in TAS had taught me a lot about how stupid people judge people...

judging is seriously....BANGANG.....

so, i had this conversation with some of my friend...Malaysian...mean that..among the Malay and Chinese friends....

i always thought that this "judging" phenomena only happen among the Malays...apparently..it also happen to other races...

lets look to several situation...

you met a man full with tattoo on his arm...our common perception will be...
owh..he must be one of the gang?

you saw your classmate came to school with skateboard...with his skate clothes..look as messy as he never comb his hair..and if you don't know him...you could be mistaken him with other street kids...
owh...he must be the "problem child"

you saw a hot, perfect, structured body woman...
owh...she must be the "great" bimbo

you talk to someone who seems feminine..talk soft...clean and clear face...well scented body...
owh...she must be a full time knitter.. or the only thing she care about is her pedi meni..

and so the list goes...i mean the situations...

you assume people stupid, careless, have no life, gay (because he don't have girlfriend), lesbian (because she don't have boyfriend) or tak laku (just because he/she is happier to live alone)(i used to be one of those mulut longkang too...and sangat menyesal dengan diri sendiri)

i've met the most polite person who had tattoos all over his arm...he look like he belong to a gang or something...but seriously...he's kind, warm, and polite...

i saw him helped the old ladies with their shopping bags...hold doors for the people after him...smile to us asian while everyone being racist...talk about how he think about how he really interested in Islam...he read quran everyday to read the beautiful words...

so..seriously...everyone seems normal/scary until we get to know them...
we have no right to judge them because we don't know what they think, what the felt everyday, what they need to face, what really they need or don't need.

give people chance to live their life...stop interrupting other people's life..live your life to the fullest....

tak menyibuk hal orang pon kau boleh hidup bahagia...
ingat, kita tak pernah takde sesiapa....

i always have Him...

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1 respond(s) to this blog:

Anonymous said...

Judging from your post, you're a very angry person :p