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Tuesday, March 27, 2012

i call it lovey dovey thingy

so....let's talk about this lovey dovey thingy...i must be crazy because right now i am suppose to be hell panic about all the subjects at school...and definly, not blogging at this critical time..

but...i feel the urge of writing this entry..too many incident to handle in one time..so..read and think..sometimes it just too hard to spit the words out...yeah..

loads of thing happened lately...all the mix feeling...me..and people around me...you know who you are...keeping a secret..or knowing a story which not many people knew really gives me hard times...

let's make it clear...for everyone...and for myself...

first...let's clarify about feelings thingy.....-___-' (speaks like a pro..ha!)

sometimes, we just confuse and not sure about our own feelings...that happen all the time..like seriously..all the time...you aim for someone...you got the chance to get closer to the person that you're aiming for...and buufff!! all you can see now are the beautiful side of her/him?

or...

surprisingly...you have no feelings at all...?? all the excitement...the eagerness...gone...just like that..once the 'subject' you aimed for is almost yours...you realize that you are just happy chasing him/her...

like and love are two different things...want to have..and want to love..or need someone...those are all different things... ska.... you tweeted about this last few days??weeks? can't remember...

you are thirsty.you need a water.

it's a different thing when i say..

i like coffee, and i can't stop drinking it, it makes me happy although my body can't stand caffeine at all. (<---ni namanya bodoh!)

and so on...

being all pushy all the time... believing something that almost impossible to happen would happen is stupid...

making someone comfortable being with you doesn't guarantee that s/he loves you just the way you loved them...seriously...

it is true that..if you want something..work for it...make it happen..but in this lovey dovey thingy...it wont happen...unless Allah said so...that s/he 's gonna be yours no matter what...

having someone who loves your strength and weakness is awesome...but it is definly unfair when you doesn't love her/him back at all... so...one of the party should stop...the one who loves should stop loving..because it ain't gonna work..seriously! and the one who don't bother to love should do something to stop this lovey dovey thingy...before it become critical and no turning back at all!

been there.done that.

i've been in both shoes...weird enough because if you really know me, i am the type of person who hardly fall for someone..but i did fall for someone...long time ago...

and the wrong thing about relationship is when you get confuse about being bestie and boyfriend and girlfriend thingy...

i used to fall for my bestie before.while i am actually dating someone....yep..i know how it sounds like..WRONG!!!!we had that mutual feelings and he burst it out first... so...tadaaaa....we're screwed...the feeling is now gone...! we discuss about it like a pro...and we found that...it is just wrong..we are besties...can never be more than that...we might seems good together...but seems doesn't mean must....

never get confuse with your own feelings...NEVER...!!!

okay..i am the type who had plenty of besties...bunch of close friends...trustworthy friends..friends that i only call to ask for help...friend that i will only seek for fun...and so the list goes...but one thing that im sure is that..i always appreciate friends...friend for me is the person who will laugh at you before s/he help you...understand you when you needed a space..and a person who you won't feel bore with...a person who will stand up with you when you're to weak to stand alone by yourself...

so...what i see in relationship..is more likely about taking control...get jealous...baby talking...talking sweet stuff...romantic surprise...check on each other...and few other things that i think ridiculous and won't last long...(now, it makes sense why i have loads of gay friends huh?)

the harder you try to get closer to the person you think you're in love with...you are actually pulling it farther..trust me...although this theory cannot be applied to all women/girls...but it do apply in current situation(s)...and i don't know how men reacts towards this kind of situation..but..from my observation...men react almost the same like women..some emotionally affected..some rationally just take it easy...

so, when you are sure that the relationship won't work...do reject it politely...never gives hopes...hopes will cause more pain and unwanted memories...

but..if you really like someone..don't give up easily...ask...if s/he is a good friend of yours...s/he won't mind being asked about his/her status in a relationship...don't simply conclude things that you are not sure...

friends will forever be friends...but lovers..once its ruined...it'll ruin forever!

after reading this entry... i am pretty sure that i won't be the one that you gonna turn to when it comes about this lovey dovey thingy.

*now it make sense why i love being friend with 'not so straight guy'...at least..they are always with me no matter what..the best part is to know that they love you but will never fall for you...


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