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Saturday, October 30, 2010

wife to be?? naaahhh...

hi..im 24..soon to be 25,26,27...bla ba bla...but yet...still too playful to be 24...too immature to be 24...i have loads of friends who are already married...and soon to get married...me? still single and happy so far.. alhamdulillah...
call me freak....

but yes i did freak out each time people ask me about marriage.... i did get mad each time someone asked me if i want to be their daughter in law...and yes...i get upset each time people thinks that they can buy me with their bloody money...

i m fear of commitment type of person..but once i need to be committed...i'll commit...
i dont enjoy cooking...but enjoy baking....i love kids...i love arranging the household...i love to read...im pop art lover...vintage..retro..old school...music lover..gadget lover...i hang out with who ever i want...i work like theres no more tomorrow...and i enjoy my life like i will forever live single...

im stubborn to death...i dont give a damn about almost everything...im not really sensitive with surrounding...im clumsy...i like to do many things...but never really fall in love with any of em... i know lots of thing...but never really good in any of em...

im just another plain girl u might know....or...maybe the first plain girl u know??

i dont have plan after getting married...but i do have plan if i have child/children...

and i do have plan if i m not getting married at all...

i dont deny the fact that Rasullullah SAW encourage us to get married so that umat Islam akan bertambah...

i will get married if i were destined to get married... but as for now... i'll freak out if my parents want me to get married...

i m happy to see my friends on their engagement day...during their wedding ceremony...and the day they called me and told me they had baby boy/girl...

and i know my parents are a bit worried about me...worried about me who always said 'im not ready'....

yes...i will forever not ready for it...

you can say those common accusation in malaysian society...'tak laku'...but if you really knew me...you know my situation....

if i want to get married...i want my future husband to be a real good father to my kids...i used to have loads of boyfriend who were fun to be with...

but they only 'fun to be with'...

to those who read... you are free to judge...but who are you to judge??

yes..i'm too immature to be 24..and too playful to be 24...


- E N D -

Friday, October 15, 2010

rintihan seorang 'majikan'?

ok la..aku bukan majikan..aku anak kepada majikan...

entry ini tidak ada kaitan dengan racism...hanya luahan hati semata2...

kepada yang terasa..usah terasa...saya juga berasal dari rumpun indonesia...

kisah ini tentang bibik-bibik yang pernah berkhidmat di rumah saya....kadang2..kalau difikir2kan balik...ada logik nya bibik2 tu kna dera...

mahu tahu mengapa?

sepanjang pengambilan bibik...yang kali ini yg paling bermasalah...
pemalas, penipu, melawan, tak pandai2 buat kerja, (mungkin sbb dia malas..so tak pandai2 la)ape yg dimaksudkan tak pandai2...kalo difikirkan dgn logik akal...diorg dtg sini pasti kerana taraf hidup diorg susah kat sana....nak cari rezeki kat sini...so compem la dorg susah...tapi....tak reti siang ikan....pegang senduk pon mcm org tak pnah masak...atau adekah mereka terlalu susah di sana? tak pnah makan ikan or tak pnah pegang senduk sbb tak mampu beli senduk??season ni..saya lebih hebat membuat kerja rumah berbanding bibik...season lain..training yg diberikan hanya berkaitan penyusunan...kerja rumah mereka.??

TERBAIK...


bibik2 sebelum ni agak disenangi dan disayangi ramai...

bibik sekarang? nak mintak tumpang rumah sape2 time outstation pon org taknak sebab pemalas....

awal2 pengambilan...mak saya naik darah byk kali...mujur tak sakit jantung....

semua benda nak rosak..semua baju nak terbakar...semua pinggan nak pecah...kalo sekali dua takpe...

BANYAK KALI...

KERUGIAN? AMAT BANYAK...

macam mane la tak kna tekap ngn iron...isk isk isk....

gaji? TAK POTONG

barang2 saya mmg tak dibenarkan sentuh...

tapi kerja rumah tak siap2 jugak...

rumah berhabuk je...padahal tiada anak kecil untuk dijaga..memasak pon tak perlu...tapi tak siap jugak kerjanya...apakah point membayar gaji kalau begitu?

memula masuk...minta gaji awal...alasan?
rumah takde lektrik...nak buat wiring..

sekarang??
tukar channel astro babe...bila dinasihat jgn tukar2 channel...menjawab...
RUMAH SAYA PUN ADA....

dah dulu kata rumah takde lektrik??

kalo begitu jawapan yg diberi ketika waktu ditanya saya.. saya akan mintak bill astro dia bayar sket...pinggan bersepah taknak basuh...sibuk nak tengok tv...

baru2 ni...

dilempar nya kain buruk ke emak saya...
sambil meninggi kan suara...setelah di marah emak saya...
tahu mengapa dimarah?
dia buang 4 bijik tupperware....sebab koyak katanya...

TUPPERWARE...bukan tipuware...

tinggi suara ye?

maafkan saya jika saya sedikit terherdik...saya sedikit terganggu dengan kebiadapan anda...

dihempas pula grill pintu...
saya mula memberi kata2 amaran...

bukan saya membenci...tapi sedikit terganggu...

tidak pernah dibangkitkan issue pembantu rumah biadap...pembantu rumah dera anak....pembantu rumah bawa lari barang kemas...pembantu rumah suka membazir...dan lain2...

issue yg dibangkitkan...pembantu rumah didera...

saya tahu mengapa mereka didera...saya nyaris2 rase mahu melempang bibik saya....akibat kebiadaban nya...tapi selaku muslim...saya masih tahu utk mengucap apabila marah...

mereka dibayar bulan2...ditanggung makan minum, pakai, toiletries,elektrik, air, kos perubatan...pendek kata..semua ditanggung...ape lagi yg salah pada majikan??? mahu rm800 utk gaji? lupakan saja wahai golongan pemimpin...anda MEMBUNUH org bawahan anda sendiri...

jgn di salah ertikan entri ini...

saya benar2 kecewa dengan pembantu rumah saya...bila contract dia nak abes ntah..menyemak je kat rumah ni...

bukan saya tidak mampu membuat kerja rumah..tapi mak saya perlukan teman...kalo saya nak buat semua kerja rumah..baik la saya take over je tmpt bibik tu...

sama la mcm kita bekerja...bos kita tak la bodoh sgt..tapi mesti nak kita jugak buat kan kerja utk dia..sama saje conceptnya....

kepada warga indonesia yang buat tunjuk perasaan tu...hentikan lah...kajilah kesalahan sendiri sbelum menuding jari....


yang benar2 marah,

-anak majikan yang sakit hati-

Monday, October 11, 2010

cant or dont want to??

i just talked to one of my friend who think that she is the most unlucky person on this planet...
people always thought that i dont have any problem and i dont understand their situation or never been in d same boat...we might not be in the exact same boat...but i've been in that boat before...one thing that i always bear in mind..there's a solution to anything...and im not the most unlucky one...i might be unlucky...but not the most unlucky...

sometimes...wandering around is the best medicine when ur in despair...tak kesah la...drive dr kl ke kelantan ke....jalan2 window shopping ke...baca buku kat mane2 kedai buku ke...do wat ever u think you wanna do...and move on....

if you think you need companion..then find one...but usually when u're in 'great' despair..u'll always needs time on your own...

want to commit suicide?? thank to God that u dont have that intention.....if u hv the intention...PLEASE let me know...i m quite good dealing with that intention..i never try...(i mean to commit suicide)but used to plan to do so....

after all...theres thousand or in fact millions ways to overcome your stress...i still remember one of my housemate called an ustaz to somehow cool me down because shes too worried that i've gone MIA....

when i say theres always a solution to each prob...and theres always at least one way to overcome the stress.. i really mean it...i've been in d same boat...maybe not the exact same boat...maybe a bit different boat or worst boat than yours...

but what life's for if you dont learn anything?
you learn from the mistake you did....
the mistake you called problem...
or maybe not a mistake...
but a problem that need to be solved...

yes i know...it never been easy...

Sunday, October 3, 2010

purposely or jokingly?

ok...i shouldnt be writing any entry at this very moment because i have loads of works...but i just cant help it...today's entry is all about taunt & giving names...i mean calling people with names... whoever knew me will know how often i gave names to people i hate or called people by the names that they never wish to hear...

usually i called people with a name they want to hear..and pleasant to be heard...and if it is a nickname...its a pleasant thing to the name's owner to hear what i call him/her...

and i expect the same thing here..

i've been to so many open house..kenduri...feast..etc..and i can see parents had never control and mind what had been said by their so little children...to call people by what they shouldnt be called seems so inappropriate to me...and for some reason...i cant really tolerate with these people sometimes...
e.g...orang tua...gemok...kering...raju, vellu, muthu, mondok, appeton, ahseng, ahtong, mak(when shes is actually so young n hate that ppl kept thinking that shes older than her real age...)bapak..same reason as previous...pakcik..makcik...babi putih..albino...giant...pelik..tinted....etc...

all those names...i've heard people said it...to me..and to others...i used to called people pakcik..makcik...but i know my limit...i didnt called them all the time and humiliate them in front of others in certain occasion...(some people just need to maintain their standard...)

in front of the name owners...i usually refuse to call them by their so 'commercial' name...unless told to do so...but sometimes..i do accidentally called them by the name they hate..i m so sorry.. i did that with no purpose at all...

purposely or jokingly....it doesnt matter...
we should respect others...what if you re in their shoe?? you might say "selamba r"
but believe me you dont want to hear people calling you 'tassaday' in the center of formal crowd...i've seen that... and i can see how embarrassed he was when his friends called him...everyone in the hall was looking at him...and i consider this 'naming' stuf is just inappropriate although to children...parents should supervise what came out from their children's mouth...to call an uncle as pakcik gemuk tu cakap jgn lari2..or pakcik botak tu garang rr...its just intolerable...

yes...i knew...it just a small thing that we should care less...
but still..i wish and pray for my future children not to do such things in future and thinks before they say something...there's no such thing as...'biarla...budak2..'it a big NO NO...kalau tak takde la pepatah...MELUNTUR BULUH BIARLAH DARI REBUNGNYA...