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Sunday, October 3, 2010

purposely or jokingly?

ok...i shouldnt be writing any entry at this very moment because i have loads of works...but i just cant help it...today's entry is all about taunt & giving names...i mean calling people with names... whoever knew me will know how often i gave names to people i hate or called people by the names that they never wish to hear...

usually i called people with a name they want to hear..and pleasant to be heard...and if it is a nickname...its a pleasant thing to the name's owner to hear what i call him/her...

and i expect the same thing here..

i've been to so many open house..kenduri...feast..etc..and i can see parents had never control and mind what had been said by their so little children...to call people by what they shouldnt be called seems so inappropriate to me...and for some reason...i cant really tolerate with these people sometimes...
e.g...orang tua...gemok...kering...raju, vellu, muthu, mondok, appeton, ahseng, ahtong, mak(when shes is actually so young n hate that ppl kept thinking that shes older than her real age...)bapak..same reason as previous...pakcik..makcik...babi putih..albino...giant...pelik..tinted....etc...

all those names...i've heard people said it...to me..and to others...i used to called people pakcik..makcik...but i know my limit...i didnt called them all the time and humiliate them in front of others in certain occasion...(some people just need to maintain their standard...)

in front of the name owners...i usually refuse to call them by their so 'commercial' name...unless told to do so...but sometimes..i do accidentally called them by the name they hate..i m so sorry.. i did that with no purpose at all...

purposely or jokingly....it doesnt matter...
we should respect others...what if you re in their shoe?? you might say "selamba r"
but believe me you dont want to hear people calling you 'tassaday' in the center of formal crowd...i've seen that... and i can see how embarrassed he was when his friends called him...everyone in the hall was looking at him...and i consider this 'naming' stuf is just inappropriate although to children...parents should supervise what came out from their children's mouth...to call an uncle as pakcik gemuk tu cakap jgn lari2..or pakcik botak tu garang rr...its just intolerable...

yes...i knew...it just a small thing that we should care less...
but still..i wish and pray for my future children not to do such things in future and thinks before they say something...there's no such thing as...'biarla...budak2..'it a big NO NO...kalau tak takde la pepatah...MELUNTUR BULUH BIARLAH DARI REBUNGNYA...

1 respond(s) to this blog:

mr_bread said...

yeay~i'm shortlisted! :))))